At least for the last decade, I noticed a twist toward the gender issue in our society, where men and women seem confused in finding their place within relationships and more globally, in the world. What I love about it is that as we approach 2021, the idea of "all genders's acceptance and equality" feels realistic. Thanks to the "speak up peoples" for that, my amazing colleagues who are doing an amazing work toward it. I am not one of those because I don't want to take risk, by creating some polemic on social media. The reason behind that is it is taking too much of my energy, in going mental after words. My rigidity needs harmony and peace to focus on my responsibilities. That is why I have such deep appreciation for the peoples who are taking those risks in the name of integrity - the necessity of getting loud to some degree. However, how to stand in a relationship remains to be clarified, depending of who we are and what we choose to bring up
Regardless of what our gender is, having our feminine / masculine energies balanced, is a healthy component in our lives. One cannot function properly without the other. We need a good dose of female energy to receive what we create with our masculine energy. In other words, the part of you that makes things happen, that goes out there and moves mountains? That's your masculine. It is that same part that structure, anticipate, visualize, survive, and protect yourself from danger.
Now the intuitive part of you that listen, feel, smell, taste, cry, laugh, receive, create, decorate, design, cook, and makes everything pretty and in harmony, refers to the feminine energies. Obviously, we all need both
With feminism standing up for equal right, goes an underlying debate about one, finding its place in the world and within a relationship. In claiming one's right to be seen, it creates the same unbalance on the opposite camp. Well, let's perceive our society currently on a bridge from one era to the next. And how can we truly feel any sort of belonging somewhere, when our position is consistently being reviewed? Can't we just be by thinking less? Or do we need to define everything to feed a distorted control / safety pattern?
All genders need to find their places again. Changes has been necessary and now, isn't it time for balance? I don't do feminism or masculinist. I don't do Republican, Democratic nor Green. I don't do women's, men's or transgender's group (although I think it is necessary for healing / support). Not because I think I am superior. But because I don't want to be labeled. So, I choose to do all of you in the same pot. That is what I do. That is what I see. That is the freedom and cohesiveness I want to create. That's the vision I want to embrace. That's what I want to love. That's what my Play is for...a colorful playground! This is not communism, although I love the community and groups spirits (just kidding!). But more seriously, this is a window of perception opening. I don't do politic. I do energetic and I use it to create my world. How's that ?
This is an invitation to look at our shadow pieces versus blaming others. This vicious cycle separate us. Instead os splitting ourselves, what is it that pisses you off in the other and what does it tells you personally or about a group you are part of? Can you see that the other is mirroring you and that perhaps, it is the purpose of relationship, of a group? What is it that the other teaches you about yourself? From this perspective, one can quickly shift from anger to gratitude for the integrated lessons. I believe we don't need to grow up but to open our perception so can live better at peace. That my friends, makes a major difference. It brings you power, grace and reverence to look at yourself with honesty, so you can take responsibility for what and how you created inconvenient feelings. Isn't it what being adult truly means? To own our projections instead of blaming others? This is the ultimate ego's turn over into a higher vibration's emerging. In Sarah and Abraham's show, Abraham is struggling with his relationship to the divine or authority if you will. It is clear that he seems separated from it, considering himself smaller, not to say irrelevant. Sarah has the same experience with Abraham and that is why it is working between them at the beginning of the Play. One is finding their wound into the other. The familiar sensation creates the attraction or an illusionary sense of belonging somewhere. This dynamic is not coming from the adult self but from the wounded child, wanting to fix what has been done to them, whatever the story is. Unfortunately, we have witnessed this model in our society too often. Some relationship survives to it as eventually, with the time goes by they find themselves. Others separate from one another to find themselves on their own. Others separate to reproduce the same situation with someone else, blaming the last object of attention as of ignorant of their own activated energy. And the same story will most likely goes on over an over again
In the show, life gave Sarah and Abraham multiples opportunities to individuate while staying in contact with each other. In my perspective, this is mastery. I personally, needed time and space to break my illusions to build my healthy genuine self. It took me years, tears, joy, agony, great experiences, practice, and a solid community who has the same life interest than I, in living a meaningful life. This should not discouraged any of you as each path is different. Plus, everything is getting accelerated and adjusted. Lucky you if you feel called! For one of the most precious blessings is to have yourself while being intimate with another human being. That is true love. You don't need anything from other but just sharing your gifts and your flaws, without coming from a compensation place
That is one of Sarah and Abraham's teaching. Unity in Duality. Humans are meant to experience contrast from their minds to their lives. We are split and perhaps, what if it's meant to? Therefore, how can we stay unconditional in a conditional world? Well, perhaps the reminder that we are all living under the same human's imperfect conditions can help us getting out of boxes to misidentified ego. Instead of rooting in the culture, rooting into ourselves to differentiate from one another. Ironically, it is throughout individuation that one can find cohesiveness from inside out - opening up to something bigger: ONENESS
These are words and I hope you find the inspiration to act meaningfully
I love that you are an all genders audience. It makes me feel that I belong. Looking forward to get together for SHOW TIME!
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